Money plays a big role in relationships and can influence them positively and negatively. Let’s explore some of them:
Communication and Openness
- Positive: When couples are open and honest about their finances, it can strengthen trust and teamwork. Shared financial goals often bring partners closer together.
- Negative: Lack of openness about money, such as hidden debt or secret spending habits like gambling, can lead to mistrust and even conflict.
Balance in relationships
- Positive: Financial independence for both partners can lead to a more balanced and equal relationship with each having their own earnings.
- Negative: Where one partner earns much more than the other it may create feelings of resentment, insecurity, or control in the relationship.
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Stress & Conflict
- Positive: Financial stability can reduce stress, allowing couples to focus on other aspects of their relationship making it better for everyone.
- Negative: Financial struggles or disagreements about spending and saving habits are among the leading causes of arguments in relationships.
Shared Goals & attitudes
- Positive: Couples with share financial goals (e.g., saving for a home deposit) tend to work better together as they plan for their future.
- Negative: Differences in attitudes to finances (e.g. one being a spender and the other a saver) can lead to real friction in the relationship.
Lifestyle Expectations
- Positive: Partners who agree on how to balance their lifestyle with what they can afford tend to experience more harmony in their relationship.
- Negative: Big gaps in lifestyle expectations, like one partner wanting luxury while the other prefers saving money, can lead to tensions.
External Relationships
- Friends & Family: Money issues, like borrowing from friends or family, can put pressure on the couple’s relationship with them.
- Cultural: Expectations regarding financial roles (e.g., who should earn more or manage finances) may affect the relationship dynamic.
Tips to help with money issues
IT'S GOOD TO TALK
Discuss money early in your relationship, find shared goals, be open about debts, and your spending habits.
BUDGET TOGETHER
Sit down and work out how to manage your income and expenses together, it will bring you closer.
BE SUPPORTIVE
If your partner faces a financial challenge, show them you understand and try to help them manage it.
KNOW WHEN TO SEEK HELP
If you have big money issues, seek help from professionals like Financial advisors or couples therapists.
Money itself isn’t good or bad for a relationship, however how it’s managed and communicated can significantly impact your relationship.
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This information is intended for editorial purposes only and not intended as a recommendation or financial advice